Without civilized conflict, little of value happens. Opinions are not expressed, ideas are not surfaced, and too much of life goes unsaid.
People slip away and no one knows why. Teams lose a member for reasons that would actually benefit everyone if a person had the courage to talk. The key is how to voice conflict in a totally adult manner. A worthy goal.
“What we do with our lives is obviously central to who we are.” Armstrong
We really do get to choose, if we don’t give up looking for the spot where we belong. It takes thought and being part of the world. Courage comes into play; oh, and hard work is essential. Or, we can continue to do …
“There is nothing more precious than freedom…if you can be free with someone at your side.” from film, Tasting Menu 2013
Maybe this sentiment is the key to relationships that last.
“If you have good thoughts, they will shine out of your face like sunbeams and you will always look lovely.” Roald Dahl
Make some people’s day! It costs nothing and yet is the most valuable act -ever. Count the number of times you dare to smile today.
“Let me show you to our worst table, Madame.’ Confrontation takes energy. I suspect this is the real reason people like action figures.” unknown
Do you ever get the worst table?